So u dumped your gas to atmosphere??

Firstly that is illegal, and you are a dumb ass for doing it.... and then backing up your stupidity by telling everyone on a forum about it!

Secondly it is not neccessary to disconnect as you can undo the compressor mounts and leave the unit hanging by the hoses out of the way. You would have pulled oil out of your system now by degassing the way you have.
To get your system regassed now will require a new receiver/drier to be fitted before the system is vacced down and checked for leaks.

I am guessing that if you do not have the tooling to degass the system properly you would not have a vacuum pump either.
Do yourself a favour and take it to a qualified aircon tech to sort out properly!
Finally in answer to your question.... No, a normal black o ring will not do the job as it cannot handle the refrigerant oil.
Sounds like a costly exercise to replace one $30 engine mount.