Di Filippo are a good brand, though they tend to be a little on the pricey side. Other than that, I haven't heard a bit thing about them.
4 into 1 or tri-y? It depends on what you want...4 into 1s are more for top end power whereas tri-ys are more for low-mid range...
S/C Mag no 85 has a buyers guide on headers, you might want to check that out for more info...