Bad suprise after a cruise

[Dragz]

Coming back from a cruise 2nite got a shocking suprise....theres a dead person laying on the road on princess hwy a street from noble maccas has anyone else seen it here i feel like shit:'(

A guy in a ute has pulled in the service lane i think it might of been him that unfortunately hit this person it was a vz or a vx ute

[Torquative]

these things happen unfortunately.

What I will suggest is you talk to someone in the real world tho, otherwise you might start to suffer shock and that's not good! You need to get it out of your system.

Its not a nice scene to see, I know from experience as well. Just find someone and start chatting!!

[mitchy_vn]

you pull over or were the amboz , copz, their an stuff?

[GOTMYN]

Holy Crap mate,
That's the last thing you would have been expecting!!
As said above, you need to talk about it, get it all out your system..DO NOT Bottle it up mate.....
Try and find someone that has experienced a similar thing and talk to them as you will know they understand how you are feeling right now..

Take care buddy, and good Luck

[TVR-190]

yeah its better to talk about, I saw what was left of a guy who jumped off the local westfields and its a shit feeling.

[minux]

It is just a dead person...why do you feel like shit?

[illusionalvr]

i suggest talking to someone about it. not necessarily someone with a degree. just because they are qualified doesn't mean they understand the situation; oh and minux, everyone handles it different. i think id handle it alright, but i don't know because i haven't been there.

i dunno if id be able to pick up someones brains though.

[immortality]

i'd feel bad if i hit him. otherwise it's just a body to me.

[mitchy_vn]

everybodys differnt, alot of things can run throu ur mind wen u see a dead person, dpeending on his age, maby his got a fmaily at home.. last week i hit my truck, trucks write off.. buh the hilux i hit... finshed..***in thing fliped n shit.. ttrailor broke off shit flying everywhere.. maby anybody from near hallam might kno about it . Abotts rd n wedgewood.. at that intersection early in the morning 1st june
.. wen i got out i thought who ever was in that ute was dead.. buh i didnt go into shock or get scared.. wen i saw that 3 guys were in it , 2 of them very young, my age 19-20.. i felt alittle bad cuz they cud of died. and wud of felt lik i robbed them of their future.. and everything

[Julie]

I was first on scene at a fatal accident (involved 2 cars ahead of me) and I get what you feeling. It was a really yuck feeling, felt off for a while, though it was a little different. I actually touched this fella checking for a pulse and for days my fingers felt weird. I couldn't get it out of my head for ages this young fella was around the same age as a couple of my brothers and had a similiar look just kept thinking it could have been one of them. we had to stick around and do police report etc. and one of the ambos came over and asked if I was okay, suggested I talk to someone about it, said that they deal with this sort of thing everyday and it still gets to the best of them. Its not something i think about these days this happened maybe 6-7 years ago but everytime we go along that road and I see the roadside memorial I remember this young dead fella. That said if it was just some dead dude I drove past and didn't see the accident or have any involvement I think it would be a bit different emotion.

[CSP]

It is just a dead person...why do you feel like shit?

Haha! I was thinking the same thing. Saw someone jump off a multi story car park in Melbourne recently... Funny shit! AMAZING how quick emergency services scrape up the remains and clean everything up. About 20 minutes later you wouldn't have noticed anything excepty water from where the firies hosed down the footpath.

Seen plenty of dead people in the middile east - it's no big deal. They're the ones you like - they can't hurt you any more!

[vicarious]

^^^ wouldn't be funny if it was one of your family that has some sort of mental illness or some sort of other issues, with quotes like that no wonder you have been banned before.

[SV6SidiUTE]

Haha! I was thinking the same thing. Saw someone jump off a multi story car park in Melbourne recently... Funny shit! AMAZING how quick emergency services scrape up the remains and clean everything up. About 20 minutes later you wouldn't have noticed anything excepty water from where the firies hosed down the footpath.

Seen plenty of dead people in the middile east - it's no big deal. They're the ones you like - they can't hurt you any more!

you do seem to show signs of post traumatic stress. i think you should talk to somebody

[Garth]

everyone deals with greif in a different way, we arnt all as cool and hip as a few members here, while death is a common thing, it's still not something nice to see. and for some of us, it can have a adverse affect on us. if it has affected u i would strongly sugest you seek some attention, talk to family and see what they can sugest.

[Blown V6 Hatch]

Some members on here just sound like machines (or just try and make out like they are)....Not human at all.

[immortality]

Some members on here just sound like machines (or just try and make out like they are)....Not human at all.

i don't think that is the case at all. i recently had a very old family friend die. i couldn't believe how much it effected me but for a complete stranger.............

[nemesis_adrasteia]

ive seen my fair share of accidents, being a volunteer firefighter i attend car accidents and we are usually first on scene, its not something i paticularly like to do but someone has to. ive found that ive become a bit desensitized to it, still get the horrible feeling when you get the call to go to a car accident, never know who it could be.

[minux]

Some members on here just sound like machines (or just try and make out like they are)....Not human at all.

When you have seen what some of us seen, you could understand why...I see people talking about how horrific it is to attend an accident where a child is dead. Try attending something that has 100 children dead. A clean dead body on the road, i'd have that any day of the week. For me, death means nothing, my last mate whose funeral I attended I didnt even shed a tear. Wasnt hurt. Shit happens.

garth, As for you saying you aren't as cool and hip as other members garth, easy to say when all you ever did was play on boats, wouldn't life be so sweet if thats all any soldier had to do? lol.

[Rusty]

When you have seen what some of us seen, you could understand why...I see people talking about how horrific it is to attend an accident where a child is dead. Try attending something that has 100 children dead. A clean dead body on the road, i'd have that any day of the week. For me, death means nothing, my last mate whose funeral I attended I didnt even shed a tear. Wasnt hurt. Shit happens.

garth, As for you saying you aren't as cool and hip as other members garth, easy to say when all you ever did was play on boats, wouldn't life be so sweet if thats all any soldier had to do? lol.

Obviously the OP isnt a "soldier" and hasnt been unlucky enough to surround himself with dead babies in his lifetime. His thread isnt to hear from self proclaimed "machines", but to maybe find ways to deal with what he has seen.
Why do you think he feels like shit?

[minux]

Why do you think he feels like shit?

Because he is soft?

Only reason that comes to mind.

Oh for the record, no one self proclaimed anything.

[Blown V6 Hatch]

When you have seen what some of us seen, you could understand why...I see people talking about how horrific it is to attend an accident where a child is dead. Try attending something that has 100 children dead. A clean dead body on the road, i'd have that any day of the week. For me, death means nothing, my last mate whose funeral I attended I didnt even shed a tear. Wasnt hurt. Shit happens.

garth, As for you saying you aren't as cool and hip as other members garth, easy to say when all you ever did was play on boats, wouldn't life be so sweet if thats all any soldier had to do? lol.

Yeh, that's you....Wasn't 100% referring to you not caring about seeing a dead body, but you don't even have a heart for the OP! I mean, yeh, you've seen heaps of dead bodies, but for someone to see what he saw for the first time, it would be a bit hard to take/deal with

You would have been fantastic as the Terminator

[minux]

Dude, I do not even have a heart for my wife half the time lol.

[Rusty]

Because he is soft?

Only reason that comes to mind.

Oh for the record, no one self proclaimed anything.

He's soft?? Are you drunk?

Do you feel the same about rape? seen much of that?

Disturbing that anyone would be that over sensitised to something to actually put shit on someone that is struggling with something that he has seen

[ClairBear]

How the hell is rape comparable with a dead body? What the hell is the matter with you?

[minux]

He's soft?? Are you drunk?

Do you feel the same about rape? seen much of that?

Erm, how is witnessing a rape even the same as seeing a dead body? I am really looking forward to seeing this answer. It should be as intelligent as your comparison no doubt.