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    Unhappy one of my best mates died last nite :(

    well yeh he fell out of bed last nite and had a panic attack and they couldnt revive him he was 18 next month and yeh, i found out just before work and kinda lost it at work and got told to take the day off, and whats worse... he owed me 30 bucks so weird and random how he died, sucks...

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    not good man. not good.
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    sorry to hear that, just dont let your emotions stay inside...
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    man that sucks. don't bottle it up, coz it builds up until you explode.
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    I'm sorry to hear about your loss Like the others said, don't keep your emotions to yourself it'll have you feeling worse later on

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    Quote Originally Posted by gocommygo
    and whats worse... he owed me 30 bucks
    I'm sorry but that kinda left a bitter taste in my mouth, condolences to your friends family

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    Sorry to hear that mate It's never nice, especially that young.

    Take it easy over the next couple of days, likely it'll sink in pretty hard (been there done that).
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    Sorry 2 hear of your loss dewd-my coldolences 2 u 'n friends 'n family. I'm 36 'n suffered from panic attacks on a daily basis 4 10 years, but never thought of it as life threatening in some1 so young.RIP 2 your m8....

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    yeh its gonna, guess ima have to find some more friends now. gonna be different without his stupidity still acnt believe it ay...

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    Quote Originally Posted by NOGEN 3
    Sorry 2 hear of your loss dewd-my coldolences 2 u 'n friends 'n family. I'm 36 'n suffered from panic attacks on a daily basis but never thought of it as life threatening in some1 so young.RIP 2 your m8....
    i get panic attacks all the time too :| apparently hed never had one before

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    Sorry to hear that, Just curious why you posted that on such a public forum and the he owed you $30 part. Very cold mate....

    Condolences to his family.

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    i dont know, just that these things happen and the 30 bucks thing, trying to take sum of the harshness out of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by HoZy
    Sorry to hear that, Just curious why you posted that on such a public forum and the he owed you $30 part. Very cold mate....

    Condolences to his family.

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    Guessing he just wated to talk to some mates about it.....and the $30 bucks is just a way to deal with it, humour....i know i tried to laugh when i lost a mate..He just wants support and hes got mine. Let him deal with it the way he wants.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azkwazere
    Guessing he just wated to talk to some mates about it.....and the $30 bucks is just a way to deal with it, humour....i know i tried to laugh when i lost a mate..He just wants support and hes got mine. Let him deal with it the way he wants.

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    thanx mate, im prolly gonna hit the piss pretty hard over it :| dunno wot else to do

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    sorry to hear mate. as said above dont bottle it up. i know when i lost my brother at christies beach (sa people might of heard about it) humor was one of the only things that got me through. that and good mates.

    so take it easy and dont mess yourself up

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    if i can offer one word of advice....dont!
    Grog just makes shit worse....it just enhances the issue....

    Get together with some friends and have a bit of a laugh and look back as to what he ment to you. Best this is to do what he would have wanted....i know i would want my mates to watch some stargate or startrek and think about me as i was. Just take it easy.

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    trust me, don't hit the piss over it... I've lost a mate, it was to suicide though.. And i've delt with a lot of shit in my life an i still am mate. If u needa chat, as someone said, everyone on JC are mates. Pm me if u ever wan chat about it or anything mate.

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    Condolences to you, your mates and your friends family.
    If you feel like you need to have drink, get your other mates together and drink at home or the home of another mate. Bad idea to go to the Pub as grief can very quickly turn to anger when drinking and you can get yourself into some shit (my experience). Piss does make it worse though.
    Talk to others if you can but if not talk to yourself about how you feel. Sounds crazy but it's not, it does tend to help just to put your thoughts into words even if nobody else hears it. Even write it down or Post here. You may well answer your own questions given time. Just don't hold it in.
    Deal with it your way, remember you cannot mourn incorrectly and it can help to have friends and family available for you.
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    sorry to hear bout that, i dont mean to sound ignorant of the matter or anything but whats a panic attack? is it like when u get shocked about something? sorry but i dont understand...
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    Quote Originally Posted by big_stretch
    sorry to hear bout that, i dont mean to sound ignorant of the matter or anything but whats a panic attack? is it like when u get shocked about something? sorry but i dont understand...
    you basically freak out, like feel real paranoid, dont know where you are, cant breathe, their f****N scary i dun think hed ever had one before so yeh...

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    Sorry to hear of your loss. Try to find someone to talk it through with. I know when my son died good friends were invaluable to me.

    About panic attacks... from panicattacks.com.au
    Panic Attacks

    People can experience panic attacks with any of the above disorders. Three different types of panic attacks are now recognised:

    Spontaneous panic attacks (uncued panic attacks) This particular panic attack is associated to Panic Disorder. This attack comes without any warning, day or night, irrespective of what the person is doing. The spontaneous attack is not related to, and is not induced by any particular situation or place. Many people can be woken from sleep with this type of attack.

    Specific panic attacks (cued panic attacks) These occur in relation to specific feared situations or places. For example social situations for people with Social Anxiety. Revisiting the scene or scenes reminiscent of the traumatic events in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or exposure to a particular anxiety producing situation in Obsessive Compulsive Disorder such as being exposed to germs.

    Situational predisposed panic attacks People with Panic Disorder may experience this type of attack. Some people with Panic Disorder can be predisposed to having panic attacks in certain situations or places, although they are not frightened of the situation or place. For example someone may experience panic attacks while driving their car. Sometimes they will have them, other times they won't. They are predisposed to having attacks while driving, but the attacks are not a response to a fear of driving.

    Symptoms of panic attacks can include palpitations, sweating, trembling or shaking, sensations of shortness of breath or smothering, feeling of choking, chest pain or discomfort, nausea or abdominal distress, dizziness or light-headedness, derealisation or depersonalisation, fear of losing control or going 'crazy', fear of dying, paresthesia, and chills or hot flushes'.... 'Attacks that have fewer than four symptoms are referred to as 'limited - symptom attacks.'
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