Need Some Advice On Ladies !!!!!

[Insane_Metal_Man_666]

Hey There.

I think I am in some of the same sort of thing, but with the chick i am after i dont really know her at all...

I keep seeing her on my train everyday going to work she has waved to me several times and i sort just ignored it thinking as if she could be interested in me.

I have tried to go up to her and ask for her name but everytime i guess i go to ask her i guess i chicken out.

But it has been sometime since i had seen her over the holidays except today when i was on the train and there she was again.

How do i know that if she is still interested in me or not...

I know that this isnt a help forum for ladies lol but, If you guys could help me out with my problem that would be great.

Thanks
Insane_Metal_Man_666

[calais_cruzin]

I cant understand y u would ignored her when she waved, she may think that u think she is a bit of a weirdo.

I would just find a seat where she would normally sit and speak to her n get the ball rolling.

If she is on the train with u most of the time, it would be a good place to get to know her, n u would be able to see her most days.

Just go up to her next time dont be a chicken as u will regret it more if u dont talk to her.

Confidence is the key.

[Spaced]

Yeah remember the worst she can say is no. I've had a few situations like that didn't know till later that they were after me. Be confident like calais said and be polite.

[calais_304]

Confidence is the key.

damn right,
also sometimes you can be a little to over confident and end up looking like you got your head up your ass, just be casual, it's just a chic she won't bite or kill you (depending on how you aproach her i spose ) and more then likely is thinking the same you are and is also a bit scared to go start a conversation, so be a man and go start chatting and leave it at that and see what unfolds

[Christina]

hell man, go right up there and bite the bullet.
if you don't do it now, some other guy will, and if she possibly says NO, then you can stop thinking about her and move on.

DO IT NOW - FIND OUT THE ANSWER, and either:
have a girlfriend or stop wasting your time on something that won't happen.
even if she just waves as a friend, it will stop you thinking she has the hots for you.

get in there and do it. you're a man, not a mouse!!!!
sure it might be embarassing, but you can do it, do something insane today, and if it works out for you, there's something you and this lady can laugh about later.

just make sure she's been waving at you though....

[pro_gmh]

u will even feel better about your self after goin upto her whether shes keen or not.

[Lumps of cheese]

Just ask mate, go for it!

[Weissen]

Take this from an old fart, been there, done it.

Just go and talk to her man!
Be yourself, be confident (women love confidence) but don't overdo it, be polite and most importantly get her number!!

Like most things in life, if there is nothing risked, there is nothing gained.

Ask yourself this "What have I got to lose?"
Nothing of course and you might just gain a fantastic friend in life!!
The only fear is of the fear itself!

Now go do it or you will never forgive yourself if someone else beats you to the prize!

[ivaninoz]

Hey There.

I have tried to go up to her and ask for her name but everytime i guess i go to ask her i guess i chicken out.

Thanks
Insane_Metal_Man_666

Learning the ART of Polite/respectful/inteligent Conversation is what it's at.
Your conversation will determine the Quality of Person you want to attract.

And they ARE after the same thing[s] we are after
it is just how one conducts themselves in getting it/them.

Don't wait until

How do I know this @ 55?

[edgeyvn]

As already said, you've just got to bite the bullet and go for it. If she's at all interested she'll be only too glad to talk to you. And if your interested in similar things you'll have no worries. But you won't know till you HAVE A GO. The worst she can do is tell you to piss off. And if she does then go talk to another and another till you find one interesting and willing to talk to you. Ask yourself what your after though, relationship or quicky? If relationship take it slow and listen to her, try not to push things just let them pan out. If Quicky ask her out for dinner, tell her how it is and hope for the best. She'll just say no brother. We've all heard that before. When married with kids you'll hear it more and more.

[Doubleshadow]

When we speak to girls all of us wish to be Brad Pitt or Densil Washington...but we are not. We get so caught up in trying to impress, that we completely forget to be who we are. Here you are trying to coreograph your behavior with a scripted approach as if you were acting a role. Maybe that is what is causing the tension. We completely forget to let the moment rule. By all means, speak to her. Forget about the roles, the confidence crap. Just be you. Listen to the moment and let the situation rule. Every great conversations starts with a simple "hi". And every long journey progresses only one step at a time.

She is just as human as you and who knows, maybe she grapples with the same issue you are grappling with. Afterall, you are simply human..and that's not so bad. Say hi...and just be honest. Good luck!

[BeastVS]

Mate this might sound really weird, but just walk up and start talking to her as if she was a sister or mother, Dont think of her as the chick from the train that waves at you. Just start a friendly conversation and see what happens from there.

[immortality]

Just Do It

[Infus10n]

my gf's advice...

go up to her and say hi, atleast then she knows u are interested in her. Even if there is not much of a conversation and you both feel akward this will prob only be till next train ride. If shes interested in you aswell on the next train ride she will start more conversation with you.

If she is too shy herself its upto you to keep the conversation going.

[R0d]

throw a piece of paper at her with the words I LIKE YOU!! written on it. seriously dude, every time your on the same train together move one seat closer to her each time you hop on the train. When your right next to her talk to her

[drewins]

Can you drive to work? talk to her and offer her a lift to work maybe?

[crazyspoon05]

Nothing to lose by chatting to her, if she isn't interested she will soon let you know and at least then you aren't left hanging or wondering

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[MikesVT]

This thread seems reeeeaaalllyyy familiar for some reason... De Ja Vu maybe? lol!

What I would do in your situation (Easier said than done), Go and sit next to her, say hey (in a friendly kinda casual way) she'll say hi back then introduce yourself... and presto the conversation's started! Then you can talk about whatever, make her laugh this and that... then tell her that you'll see her tomorrow (or whenever the next time is) when one of you gets off.

Starting the convo is the hardest bit dude I know... But it only takes a split second and then its all over with and you've made yourself a new friend... maybe more

Good luck dude!! Just be confident!

[AttaBoy]

Yeah man just spit it out..... who knows what will happen I sense something good.

[Trei]

Dude.

Just say it straight out, perhaps... well worded rather than just "I am a stalker and i want you badly"... perhaps " would you like to get coffee sometime, maybe as something more than friends"

If she rejects you, she doesn't get a chance to completely destroy your life. (WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN)

If she likes you back, then, at least for the time being you'll be happy in the short term. (SHORT TERM WIN !! )

[younggun]

bloody hell i swear all these threads about girls is telling me something in the same situation but i have spoken to the girl dont know if she is just being freindly or what eva gives me lifts home from work gave me her number just not sure what the go is. lol

[ivaninoz]

Obviously the Lass is being friendly,
Sounds to me like it is now up to you

Unless you prefer her to do Everything


Greif!!! If only something like that happened in my day

[Christina]

Take this from an old fart, been there, done it.
...
Be yourself, be confident (women love confidence)

as a woman, i can disagree, you can look like you're up yourself and just want a quick bang... or that you've done this before.. which can allude to being sleezy...

but some, yes.

[vncruzr]

Try and approach her as friend. How easy is it to approach someone as a friend and just talk about anything? Easy yeah! Well why just because you like her should it be any different mate? Bite the bullet sit next to her and just ask her how her day was!! See what happens. If the conversation starts to roll for ...... sake dont rattle on to much about yourself and really listen to what she has to say... apart from that good luck mate. Lifes short GO FOR IT. dont grow old wondering what if.......................

[Insane_Metal_Man_666]

Hey There,

Sounds Good Guys i am hoping i will see her on monday and see her and finally get to talk to her and get her name as well, which would be awesome lol

Thanks Heaps