i just heard a bloke i know and his wife are expecting another child.
The problem being that he's somehow on disability pension when he's only had surgery for gall stones. His wife has never worked a day in her life and is 28 years old. He hasn't worked in over 12 years but has only been on disability for the last 2 years. They live in housing department. They had 3 kids while i knew them then had their 4th 2 years ago. Since then they have had a 5th child and are now expecting their 6th in September. I know they like having kids as they get more money. Just recently they got a lump sum of $12000 and they spent most of it on computers and guitars and other bits and pieces, yet their kids toes hang out of their shoes. I've been there when they only had 3 kids and all they had for dinner was mashed potato. And one night all the wife had to eat was a piece of deli ham, which he ate while stoned and she had to go hungry. He also has a budget of $200 a week for drugs. But constantly goes over that. And they always take stuff to the hock shop to get money. He says he is spending quality time with his kids but is always in front of his computer smoking cones while his kids are on a computer next to him. I've never seen him take them to the park.
How can people like this be allowed to not only have kids but keep multiplying?
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Some people just shouldn't even be allowed in the shallow end of the gene pool...
Like so many other activities in which the outcome of your actions can seriously effect other people (like driving a car for example) the ability to procreate should be licensed and controlled.
People who fail the parenting/breeding fitness test should be wished a happy life together and sterilised.
Hang on...didn't some Austrian try this a while ago?
I reckon he just picked on the wrong demographic.
Dob them into DCD.... if you dont want to send me details and I am more than happy to.
The thing i hate is that the kids suffer through all of this, people like that should be reported to protect the kids.
He is a piece of **** by the sound of it.Dob him in.
report the ****er to child services
What they are doing is child abuse
Dont just ignore it cos those kids are going to be ****ed up and on the streets
Unfortunately this sort of things is a much more widespread problem than people think. Very sad indeed.
Car theives should be treated just like horse theives and cattle rustlers in the days of the wild west... Hang them!
Don't be stupid. Power isn't measured by the size of your tacho
if the kids grow up with out a decent child hood, they will end up just like thier ****wit dad..... that is ****ed as! we like to call them in the rat - Westies!
yeah i'm pretty tempted to dob them in. Problem being that these government depts don't do bugger all about kids who are beaten up and end up dead, what are they likely to do for kids who aren't beaten up. I have no faith in child services.
I have no faith in child services either.... I was bashed for 12 years by my mother and I begged them to help me, my mother (thank GOD) kicked me out when I was 12 and I lived on the streets for 2 years before they did anything. But you know what? You will feel better knowing you have at least TRIED to help those kids, and who's to say DCD dont help these kids?
I wish someone knew what was happening to me and I wouldn't of had to go through the **** I did for so long. Ring them, if you don't want to I'm dead serious, pass the details onto me and I am more than happy to.
meh thats life
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Car theives should be treated just like horse theives and cattle rustlers in the days of the wild west... Hang them!
Don't be stupid. Power isn't measured by the size of your tacho
don't just be tempted to dob them in, do it.
also give the police a ring regarding the drugs, they might be interested.
basically, you'd want the kids out of their hands no matter what.
<<<Rob>>>
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maha lol u dont like me much do u...
lol do u know me do u know where im from or my social scene NO.. just a few comments on a forum so get over it ..
and mate i plan on having kids when im settled down so get over it
oh yea im gonna end up im prison all right .. since i dont touch drugs drink or smoke .. and manage to hold down 2 jobs ... oh yea my kids are gonna have a ***ed life alright lol
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Dodgey situation i knew a few like it to, best part is some of the kids hatred of there parents lifestyles stops them from becoming deadbeat parents. The drugs side i dont care about (cept for the smoking around them) because i know many families where their parent/parents smoke hooter, they would never let it come before there family though or let their kids needy.
im suprised this bloke managed to raise an erection let alone 6 kids.
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Yes, its a big problem, society has safeguards for all sorts of things. We need financial checks to buy a home, licence to drive a car, odds and evens watering days etc.......but then the one thing which will have the largest impact on our community:.......... we have the ridiculous fact that any two dimwits are allowed to breed more dimwits(as many as they like).......even the dog breeding business is regulated!
I am going to agree with some of what VLDavo has said, although its been edited I can only see what someone else has quoted.
"Eh it happens" is a stupid comment for starters, but yes they way you are raised has ALLOT to do with who you are going to be like as a adult & member of society and has a bit to do with your values, but having a rough childhood and being exposed to bad behavior by your parents does not really mean your doomed. Like I already said, my mum was a violent alcoholic and I a nothing like her, in fact the best thing she did for me was show me exactly how NOT to be a parent. But its not nice growing up doing everything you can to NOT turn out like your parent, therefore DOB them in, these kids don't deserve to be exposed to that lifestyle.
It's got nothing to do with liking you. Am I supposed to like you? I'm just trying to say you've got some ****ed up ideas about how children are raised and where they get their influence from. For your future childrens sake, I hope they don't turn out to be little thugs and then you (like so many pieces of trash) look to place the blame on everyone else for your childs mistakes.
Car theives should be treated just like horse theives and cattle rustlers in the days of the wild west... Hang them!
Don't be stupid. Power isn't measured by the size of your tacho
Originally Posted by VLDavo
meh thats life <-----------( this was a comment to the thread as in yes thats life it happens more often then not.. i didnt say it wasnt wrong i know its wrong)
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....and as far as the comment goes about the way you are brought up is a crock of ****... <--------( was in reply to your comment on saying that you are automaticly predisposed at doing bad things just because u come from poverty or are surrounded by drugs and wasnt ment to be about the parents more about your surroundings)
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well it might just be me but everyone has a brain and everyone has some social interaction with people other then there family members and by mid highschool age should know whats right or wrong and be able to make desicions for themselfs.. <--------------( kids arent robots they do have a mind of there own and are able to make desicions on there own out of the home away from the family and kids should know the difference between right and wrong no matter how they are raised. i mean u even learn in school whats right and wrong
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just coz good old dad is a crack head and mums sleeping with every man in the neighbour hood doesnt mean that i have to <---------( umm exactly what as said above buy the young lady just becasue you have bad parents doesnt mean u have to be a basted of a kid )
lol i guess im coming more from the kids point of view being a fair few years younger then you. i didnt have the best childhood but i damn sure knew the difference between right and wrong when i was going to school and growing up and now am trying to well for myself so my kids wont go threw what i did ... so dont tell me i have stupid ideals since u dont know me
meh it might come off different to u in the way ive worded it but yea take it as it comes cheif..
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Well, they will give people several thousand dollars just for spitting out a kid...
Funnily enough my wife and I managed to survive easily enough when we had our three kids back in 1984, 1987, and 1991 without the government handing us a massive cheque...
My neice has just popped out a kid...18 years old, planned it with the boyfriend, and I had high hopes for her doing the right thing with the baby bonus...however, I have recently seen her boyfriend at Harvey Norman checking the prices of large screen LCD TV's and a PS3...if what happens is what I suspect is going to happen, I will not be frickin happy...![]()