do you hold a grudge against anyone?

[Troy711]

i was talking about it with my workmate on the way home... and i realised that i dont have a grudge against anyone for anything. i really really really dislike some people for various reasons, but i dont hold grudges against them

do you? if so, what did they do to you and how long have you held it for?

[nicko]

how do you define a grudge?

[xlr8_87]

sounds like me, i can dislike people heavily but as long as they don't pick on me specifically i'll leave them alone

[Cobez]

No.........

[Troy711]

a grudge is a feeling of resentment harbored because of some real or fancied wrong

[VS_Pete_1]

No..........

[Not_An_Abba_Fan]

No, I don't even dislike many people. To dislike or hate someone involves an emotion. My time is too valuable to be spent on wasting emotions on someone who probably won't even know about it.

I may have issues with someones actions, or I may think they are a dick, but no grudges for me.

[maginoodle]

only hold a grudge against 1 person.
To save himself from going to jail he made a statement against me and i ended up doing 3 months because i couldnt find all the reciepts for everything i own.
I dont like some people but i dont have grudges against them.

[quick308]

i am angery about what people did to me in the past but iv moved on. holding grudges is pointless gets you no where. it just makes you bitter

[Just_a_stocker]

I have held grudges, bad ones that used to keep me awake at night with anger..
oh well ill tell yas just so you dont think im a psycho..
I was sacked and replaced over a series of events that involved favouritism and an unfair supervisor giving me a hard run.

but I got a better job, but mind you i held that grudge for 12 cold months as strong as the first day I was put off.

yeah I still hate their guts and if they wanted somthing from me I would be very inclined to tell em to fu_ck them selvs sideways with a watermelon WITHOUT LUBE !!!...


..hmm maybe i do hold grudges
life too short not to

[greenfoam]

I think everyone goes through moments where they are an inch away from setting people on fire but it passes after a few months. I'll probably have words to a couple of guys that beat me up at primary school one day (one held my arms around the staircase rail) while the other hit me. They were older kids and took a basket ball we were using and so I ran through their game and took it back, after a long chase around the school they cornered me and beat me up :S. But it's too long ago for revenge now

[andyman]

i work with a fella who has a grudge against god, for a series of events that happened in his life

[Reaper]

There are people who I won't associate with but I would never give anybody the satisfaction to bother wasting any time or effort holding a grudge against them.

Reaper

[Void]

Grudge? Maybe

I plan my revenge. may take days or may take a few weeks but when its my turn you better watch out.

Like the prick who though it would be funny on april fools to hide the knob on my work hoist, 2morow he will turn up to work and find his tool box on the staker rack 4 stories up in the air and the prick who changed all the draws in my tool box will find 1 wheel missing off his creeper and his 10mm 12mm and 14mm sockets missing

[nicko]

i only hold one. it doesnt keep me awake at night but i will never forget it. im a friendly enough person

[Just_a_stocker]

i only hold one. it doesnt keep me awake at night but i will never forget it. im a friendly enough person

mate I just noticed that avatar for what it really is..lol..very cool and funny too

[nicko]

yeh its a classic one. i have sent it to a fair few people now

[VNexecutive]

i must sound like a prick. i hold grudges againts lots of people. ahah. i have a good memory for bad things people do to me. which kinda sucks.

[Tom_1569]

I hold 2 grudges and probly will hold them for ever.
1 - Against my father which i will not go into on the internet.
2 - A guy who rapped my girlfriend (now ex), and caused alot of trouble in my life.

[sleek_vp]

i must sound like a prick. i hold grudges againts lots of people. ahah. i have a good memory for bad things people do to me. which kinda sucks.

same mate and it does suck, anger& holding grudges turned me very aggressive for a while but i get over it, cant be angry all the time

[TheForgotten]

the only grudge i harbor is against myself for not doing things right the first time

[v8oz]

There used to be a guy that i somewhat competed with at work a couple years ago, he made me pretty angry... but I don't think I ever held a real grudge.

[EvoVIIIJDM]

waste of time, no grudges. May have a beef for a while, that would be about all.

[Emackulation]

Yes........

[f1tzy]

Not really a grudge more of an intense dislike which lasts for a few weeks. After that it sorta just changes to an 'if you **** me off ill clock you one' sort of feeling towards them