Lack of respect

[Garth]

all sound advice and things i have thouight myself.... and lisnM8, his ex is a another mates ex anyway so i wouldnt be goin there...that and shes no good either...
i had a diff bird friday and satday night (she was first to find out obviously...) so its all good, no point in getting hung up on it. its not my fault shes a headcase...
me and another mate of mine penned a new name for him, "scraps", coz he cant get in first round, he waits for others to finish or drop the ball and he picks up the scraps.
im not letting it get to me, not worth it. just thought ide give y'all some light entertainment.
and to garth and shounak....spare the sociology lecture, you may have gone to uni but not al of us want to...

sociology lecture, try life experiance champ. pull your head out of the sand.

[_Mukas_]

if my head was in the sand, wouldnt i be drowning in self-pity, not going out and enjoying myself like i should be... well for someone so experienced you would prefer to degrade than to give an alternative, i guess quantity over quality is your forte...

[Reaper]

one of my best mates just broke off his relationship with this chik (they werent goin out but were together) and is now with her best friend, who just so happens to be a chik i was with for a while and only stopped hookin up about 2 weeks ago.
me and the chik i was with, over the last couple of days, have been trying to work shit out and see if there was still something there, coz we were both still pretty keen on each other.... i find out off my mate that he likes her...which was fine. i just said wait till ive tried working this shit out and see waht happens. i have just found out that they have been hooking up for the past week, and are now probly gonna get serious...all without my knowledge or the other chiks knowledge which i reckon is wrong...
i know this sounds like a jealous rant but put yourself in my shoes. your best mate goes for the chik you have only just stopped seeing and the chik he was seeing up until a week ago is her best friend... i know they say never let a chik come between mates but ###, its not just the chiks fault, it shows a level of disrespect on his part too i reckon.
i dont wana lose a mate over a chik but if hes showing this lack of respect to me in regard to chiks, i consider it a lack of respect to me a person... and the chik i was with, well to move on from me (who wanted to get serious but she didnt) to gettign serious with my best mate, who was with her best mate, within a fortnight is just not on...
what do you reckon???

Yeah it sucks big ones . Unfortunatly there is not much you can do without looking like a dork.

Move on and don't associate with them. The faster you put it behind you, the sooner you will stop feeling like crap.

Reaper

[Torquen]

i reckon your being a tool

she doesnt belong to you, so why should you care if she is with a nother bloke or girl for that matter, personaly if i was you i would be sitting back and thinking about what you have writen above. because serioulsy, you are comming across as a possesive bloke.

hmm bit insensitive but personal pinion so ok. dw m8 had the same thing happen 2 me. shit happens, itl sort itself out. me n my m8 r cool now so yeh, she'l b rite so 2 speek.

[Shounak]

all sound advice and things i have thouight myself.... and lisnM8, his ex is a another ex anyway so i wouldnt be goin there...
me and another mate of mine penned a new name for him, "scraps", coz he cant get in first round, he waits for others to finish or drop the ball and he picks up the scraps,
im not letting it get to me, not worth it. just thought ide give y'all some light entertainment.
and to garth and shounak....spare the sociology lecture, you may have gone to uni but not al of us want to...

Just because someone is smarter then you doesn't mean they've gone to Uni.. Jeez..

And if you think that was a sociology lecture, you should meet a Sociology major arts student.. Freaky..

[_Mukas_]

Just because someone is smarter then you doesn't mean they've gone to Uni.. Jeez..

had nothing to do with being smarter, if im outsmarted at something ill admit to it, but this is hardly a case where intellect is vital, its more a moral and character issue. and you do go to uni so i dont know why you said that...
either way, im still mates with him i guess, the nikname 'scraps' has stuck tho, and boy does he hate it! haha...
its all good, life goes on....cant let a chik come between mates, no matter how hot she is or how well she roots...(sorry if that offended anyone, not intentional)

[semi]

pfft, cant see how that would make you smarter shounak. Fair enough that its best to just get onj with it, but mukas has a right to be pissed of and feel betrayed. This was his best mate, and if i know my mates have a little going with someone then its automatically a no go area. Its a moral thing.
Maybe youd steal your best mates GF??

[dan-wess]

Chicks are for r00tin, mates are forever! truck her and make good with your mate.
Dan

[Streetvision]

*hides dan-wess from all the angry female posters*

[VRFURY]

glad u hid him away lol.

not that i really give a crap what he said doesnt affend me

[Streetvision]

glad u hid him away lol.

not that i really give a crap what he said doesnt affend me

Yeah, i've seen guys say that around girls before

[VRFURY]

yeah, shows what type of person he must be with a comment like that.

[Nobody Actually]

Chicks are for r00tin, mates are forever! truck her and make good with your mate.
Dan

and we can tell who'll end up 40 yrs old and still living with their mom.

good mates are a great thing to have but mates won't have kids with you, help you pay off your house, pamper you when you're sick, or compliment you the way your partner will. think about it drop kick.

[Lumps of cheese]

Bottom line is, this young fella's only 19, his got his life ahead of him and well, if that's the worst that happens to ya then you've done pretty well.
Don't get me wrong, i would feel i bit cranky too but it sounds like they deserve each other anyway.
Don't dwell on it mate, move on and enjoy life.

[Streetvision]

*steals a 40 year old virgin line*

I respect women so much i completly stay away from them ahah

[_Mukas_]

Bottom line is, this young fella's only 19, his got his life ahead of him and well, if that's the worst that happens to ya then you've done pretty well.
Don't get me wrong, i would feel i bit cranky too but it sounds like they deserve each other anyway.
Don't dwell on it mate, move on and enjoy life.

there we go, one of the only people that actually made some sense and didnt take the "im a hardcore **** and dont give a shit" approach....
its funny now tho coz me and my mate are back mates again, wasnt gonna let a little hottie get between us, its opintless. that, and shes a headcase who has ended up ###n him round and doin his head in...
was me, him and a couple of mates at his place satday, getting on the piss watchin the footy and then the union, and all of a sudden she turns up, starts goin nuts....full nuts, abusing him and throwing some my way too, just for good measure, and then when she finally calmed down, she didnt say a word to anyone.....just sat there.... and then had the nerve to msg me and somehow blame me for it....lol....i wasnt putting up with that shit, so i let her have it...went off tap, put her in her place and i havent heard a word from her back....
my mate copped the same thing, abuse and abuse and abuse, then the silent treatment. difference is tho, she was blaming me for her being angry at him, to which he laughed, told her to grow up, stop acting like a spoilt brat and talk like a normal person....i dont know how they travelling, but i dont think ill be talking to her for a while...

[Streetvision]

o_o; Chicks chicks chicks

[adrian222]

yer i jst broke up with my 2 yr gf and she went and hooked up with my mate the next week. then 2 weeks later she says she wants me back come out with me friday night and we saw that guy. he hates me and i hate him now. like shit where is the respect for ur bro's. and friday when she was with me at a club i left to go for a quick cruise and she left and went to the other club down the raod and hooks up with that guy agian. now wft she says she wants me and the same night goes behind my back and kisses him. i found out the next day btw. after she can stay in my bed etc. and also on the friday night he comes and sees me to fight me. lil shit wat a fag but serious. wat do u ppl think i should do. she says she wants me and kisses someone esle. just ****in with me. i told her to get ****ed but it continues around and around its like on loop this story, everywekend same thing happens. wat u think guys.

[Shounak]

Adrian, you know what they say about leopards.. It's the truth..

[Lumps of cheese]

And what they say about fish, there's plenty out there...

[4PLAYN]

Sorry about the late post, kind of irellivant now but ...

The same thing happened to me about 3 months ago.
We will call my first gf: Kellie
We will call my last gf: Kandii
The chick i was going out with (Kandii) got quite involved with, got acceptance from her mum and dad, even her grandparents. I worked late one night by 3 hours and she swore off guys for life saying

"Guys, pfft, can never rely on them for anything"

Plus alot more dirty things i will refuse to say on here (im a good boy *angel face*) Before i went out with my last ex (Kandii), I was with my first ex (Kellie). My last ex (Kandii) was my best friend at the time of my first gf (Kellie) and after i broke up with them both, they both started going out.

Its not only guys that can steal your ex's and friends. Its also females. Mainly one of the reasons why im single now. Yet despite that i was fairly cut up about it all, i tried to occupy my time with getting drunk and partying every night (thank god to school holidays) That took my mind off of them quite a bit.

There are other ex gf's that just faded away then we broke up. Others that i met a half a dozen times and refused to go there cause of their parents. Yet im still open for anything but im in no real rush into a relationship :P I just go with the flow and see things when they eventuate.

Just go with the flow. Dont show that your hurt, still be friends with them then fade out.

[walesy]

yer i jst broke up with my 2 yr gf and she went and hooked up with my mate the next week. then 2 weeks later she says she wants me back come out with me friday night and we saw that guy. he hates me and i hate him now. like shit where is the respect for ur bro's. and friday when she was with me at a club i left to go for a quick cruise and she left and went to the other club down the raod and hooks up with that guy agian. now wft she says she wants me and the same night goes behind my back and kisses him. i found out the next day btw. after she can stay in my bed etc. and also on the friday night he comes and sees me to fight me. lil shit wat a fag but serious. wat do u ppl think i should do. she says she wants me and kisses someone esle. just ****in with me. i told her to get ****ed but it continues around and around its like on loop this story, everywekend same thing happens. wat u think guys.

just for the record adrian ... she diddnt hook up with wizzer at the bridge.. they were both there but so was i. and the story i heard was it was you and some mates that tried to jump wizzer and it backfired on you and ur mates got bashed when u ran, correct me if im wrong. and mel aint just after wizzer, you need to find someone better

[adrian222]

hey man,
yer well he rang me and said that they did and she said they did to. lol the real story is he rang me and came to main street with his friends and wanted to bash me, he musnt have wanted to to bad coz he had his opportunity. i walked off down the raod and no one went with me or followed me. who else is she after? shes telling me that she wants to be with me, is there more then wizzer now? and wizzer just got cut at me coz mel was out with me that night and stayed at my house lol. and i was there alone and he walked from the bridge to me.i never had any friends there. when trent couldnt fight me he went to random ppl and tried to fight them, they didnt get bashed either all trent hitwas the door coz he was so drunk, maybe he just thought he was bashing ppl lol. he was pretty drunk.

[chrgdstatesman]

i like the song superman by eminem reminds me about this situation and how thingz come and go

[UNSAFE]

And what they say about fish, there's plenty out there...

Like shooting fish in a barrel?