Lack of respect

[_Mukas_]

one of my best mates just broke off his relationship with this chik (they werent goin out but were together) and is now with her best friend, who just so happens to be a chik i was with for a while and only stopped hookin up about 2 weeks ago.
me and the chik i was with, over the last couple of days, have been trying to work shit out and see if there was still something there, coz we were both still pretty keen on each other.... i find out off my mate that he likes her...which was fine. i just said wait till ive tried working this shit out and see waht happens. i have just found out that they have been hooking up for the past week, and are now probly gonna get serious...all without my knowledge or the other chiks knowledge which i reckon is wrong...
i know this sounds like a jealous rant but put yourself in my shoes. your best mate goes for the chik you have only just stopped seeing and the chik he was seeing up until a week ago is her best friend... i know they say never let a chik come between mates but ###, its not just the chiks fault, it shows a level of disrespect on his part too i reckon.
i dont wana lose a mate over a chik but if hes showing this lack of respect to me in regard to chiks, i consider it a lack of respect to me a person... and the chik i was with, well to move on from me (who wanted to get serious but she didnt) to gettign serious with my best mate, who was with her best mate, within a fortnight is just not on...
what do you reckon???

[VN_Luke]

mate, i reckon grab a beer or three, sit back, and laugh your ass off at the unfolding events between the two chicks and your mate.

There'll always be more girls, sucks to what happened, it's definately not worth even thinking about trying to get the girlie back...

sit back and laugh, it'll be like watching a shitty soapy

[jack.mc]

Happened in my group. My girls friend got with one of my mates for ~1 week, then another mate went out with her for 1.5 years. We all hated the shit out of her... It'll work itself out in time.

[Morgasshk]

relationships are very nutty dishes at the best of times...

[_Mukas_]

vp_luke, i reckon your onto it. i was thinking of kicking up a stink and goin all abusive, but at the age we are, i know it wont last so i may as well look forward and enjoy the calamity of errors about to unfold...
doesnt stop me from feeling ###t on tho... he was practically my best mate

[vn88calais]

dude happend to me too....i liked this chick and things were looking up then my mates likes her and they end up goin out i was like "WTF" haah i just ignored them for a while, but eventually i got over it...just look at it this way...u can still go out and get with all the bi-atches at the casino and all man!!

cheers, Todd

[Garth]

i reckon your being a tool

she doesnt belong to you, so why should you care if she is with a nother bloke or girl for that matter, personaly if i was you i would be sitting back and thinking about what you have writen above. because serioulsy, you are comming across as a possesive bloke.

[Boonz]

this is usually what happens when you break up with a chick.....just this happened right infront of your eyes not behind your back ......

[NORTI]

erm same sorta story happening here... so I feel ya,.... But im going with the sitting back & watching deal now....

pity mine still lives here... even after all this time....


D.

[vn88calais]

go out and find someone better dude lol..better still odnt watse time on chicks, watse it on ur car and then go for women later if u want man...lol

cheers, Todd

[_Mukas_]

Garth, your a tool.. its not that she with someone else, that isnt the issue here...its the fact that we were on the up and looking to get back together but she went to MY BEST MATE!!! thats the issue, its got nothing to do with possesion or anything, its about respect mate. for feelings and people involved...where in this situation respect is clearly lacking... moreso from my mate than from her...
im not hung up on it, theres no point..im 19 for ###s sake, its not like i was married to the chik or anything. it just shows ones true character and just goes to show the power of the pussy..

[vnberlwagon]

Your last 4 words summed it all up, "power of the pussy", hey as U said ur only 19. Find someone better, it may not seem like u can at the moment but that doesn't stop u from playing the field for a while.

[Shounak]

Garth, your a tool.. its not that she with someone else, that isnt the issue here...its the fact that we were on the up and looking to get back together but she went to MY BEST MATE!!! thats the issue, its got nothing to do with possesion or anything, its about respect mate. for feelings and people involved...where in this situation respect is clearly lacking... moreso from my mate than from her...
im not hung up on it, theres no point..im 19 for ###s sake, its not like i was married to the chik or anything. it just shows ones true character and just goes to show the power of the pussy..

All this has showed is that you were wasting your time with her.. Imagine getting serious with a chick who had it in her just to go straight for your mate. And what kind of a mate would just do that?

I agree entirely with Garth, you have no control over her or your mate. You have control only over yourself..

Thank yourself you found out about the true character of two people who have been close to you.

Now go out and f*ckn find a better mate and a better chick. Believe me, there are better of both out there..

[Back In Black !!!!]

Please Listen To What I Say !!!!

Knowing what has now unfolded before your very eyes and the deceit and lying that has probably gone with it. Do you really think that this sorry exuse for a girlfriend will stay true to your mate. I don't think so !!!!!!
So what i would suggest is this :

Enjoy the break !

Party hard !

Show your mate what he is missing out on !

Get as many females on your mobile as possible !

Get them to ring you when his around ( 1 after the other if possible) !

Lead a very active lifestyle for 2 weeks !

Show him that you are better off young and free than in a relationship, not tied down !

Experience the life of a single carefree teenager as you should !

And always remember !!! Revenge is a dish best served cold !!!!

She will eventually regret stuffing you around but by then your long gone !

And after her and your mate have finished their fling you and your mate can get very vey pissed and that is your chance to hang a whole lot of shit on him. You can laugh at his foolishness and make him feel 1cm tall. Knowing the way acted he acted was similar to a love sick puppy, he will be the butt of jokes for many years to come.

Who knows you may even be able to tell the story at his wedding, that would be a crack up !!!!

[POVRTY]

sounds like they deserve each other! ###k em its not the end of the world its gunna be hard 2 see it but it isnt. drink more party hard and make every second count untill u fall in love by accident

[LisnM8]

Mate the same shit has happened in my circle of friends, once upon a time we were like brothers, then the girls got involved and ###d it all. One mate had a crush on some skank, but yet another mate got involved with her knowing very well that the other mate liked her, its all a learning curve to life mate. You just gota get out there and enjoy your life, trust me when I tell ya, once you get a girl your weekly pay goes on them not your pride and joy. Then you eventually get married and your pride and joy turns in to a mini van argggggggghhhhhhhh think about that, bet you dont ever wanna lay eyes on another girl again lol...or why dont you pick up his ex??????thats a move sure to cause some controversy its something my immature brain would consider doing... sorry for the light hearted response just have fun bro dont kill yourself over relationships etc, your mates oviuosly thinking with the wrong head....

[minux]

Are you the same Lisnm8 in geelong with the really slow statesman that tries to race every car he see's from the lights?

[LisnM8]

Are you the same Lisnm8 in geelong with the really slow statesman that tries to race every car he see's from the lights?

yeah lol, mate its a bag of shit i am the first to admit, cant recall trying to race everyone mmmmm, its slow and low

[minux]

yeah lol, mate its a bag of shit i am the first to admit, cant recall trying to race everyone mmmmm, its slow and low

lol i figured as much Should be more careful of stock looking SS's

[LisnM8]

ohhhh its ovious that i was not even attempting to race considering i cant remember you lol even though i may have seen you on seppo? be carefull anyways mate cops cralling all over that area, they are sitting in corio auto wreckers at night so keep an eye out....

[minux]

see you all over the place...as for coppers, i seen some down that way the other day on the way home from the oldies.. Sly buggers.

[_Mukas_]

all sound advice and things i have thouight myself.... and lisnM8, his ex is a another ex anyway so i wouldnt be goin there...
me and another mate of mine penned a new name for him, "scraps", coz he cant get in first round, he waits for others to finish or drop the ball and he picks up the scraps,
im not letting it get to me, not worth it. just thought ide give y'all some light entertainment.
and to garth and shounak....spare the sociology lecture, you may have gone to uni but not al of us want to...

[_Mukas_]

all sound advice and things i have thouight myself.... and lisnM8, his ex is a another mates ex anyway so i wouldnt be goin there...that and shes no good either...
i had a diff bird friday and satday night (she was first to find out obviously...) so its all good, no point in getting hung up on it. its not my fault shes a headcase...
me and another mate of mine penned a new name for him, "scraps", coz he cant get in first round, he waits for others to finish or drop the ball and he picks up the scraps.
im not letting it get to me, not worth it. just thought ide give y'all some light entertainment.
and to garth and shounak....spare the sociology lecture, you may have gone to uni but not al of us want to...

[_Mukas_]

sorry bout the doubles, my pc went all crazy....

[Julie]

hmm I was thinking a nickname like sloppy seconds, but scraps works fine lol