I'm keen to have a go at some fab work, etc. The only work I've done on other cars has been bolt on.
You're not wrong, none of the boxes you mentioned bar the V6 4L60e will bolt on.
If you're actually serious about dropping that kind of coin, I think you should investigate the engine management side of the Alloytec based V6s before you commit, like find somebody who will specifically dyno tune the VZ V6 ECU. Most of the Alloytec ECUs are supposed to be a PITA to tune (this was specifically mentioned to me by Goat Performance at a trade stand, who incidentally apparently sell a drive in drive out Alloytec turbo package) as they're Bosch ones and are fairly different to the LS Delco ECUs. HP Tuners (which the majority of Commodore Tuners will use) kind of supports it but not really, or at least that was the case a while ago.
Going for an aftermarket ECU wouldn't help either, at least for an Alloytec with an automatic. The issue with going for an aftermarket ECU is that the gearbox relies on the ECU to tell it what to do, and just about every ECU out there doesn't have any provision to control GM automatic gearboxes.