with it ruining are you seeing 12 volt or more between coil positive and negative battery terminal?
Is a job from hell as its in the wiring loom the resistance wire hence why Ive never bothered to try and change it find it at the bulk connector under the dash above the steering wheel somewhere cut the resistance wire off the and join a bit of copper wire to it and get that to the distributor is what some blokes told me to do .
To prove the alternator charge light is causing the relay to latch on with the key off pull the charge light wire off the alternator if the handbrake light doesn't stop it put a diode in that wire