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I think this might be the path to take, lesson learnt.Sound proofing won't fix the issue, you will still hear it. As it's harmonic, you also feel it. There is another solution that may work but it's expensive, tunable J pipes. The J part is a slip join and you can adjust the length until it tunes the drone out. That coupled with a H pipe should work.
Cheapest option is to fit a quality 2 1/2" cat back, one with a muffler up front, and try and sell the 3".