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Scuba Steve
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I've got to agree with this guy, use it as motivation to better yourself. I was in a similar situation as you (wildvs2). I realised I spent way to much time and effort on a girl, and since then just like you I've started hitting the gym a lot, getting heaps better grades at uni and am moving up very quickly at work. However I did the stupid thing when she begged for me back and said yes, obviously didn't end well.
But acex throw yourself into something else to get your mind off it, I converted my car to a manual to keep my mind off it. Don't let it stop you from things in your own life, you've said its cost you your diploma if it was me I would try and get that back on track as others have said.
Exactly mate, after my ex and I broke up, i knew i had to do something to get my mind over it, so a lifestyle change was in need, and it was the best thing i've ever done
Also with the 'just be friends thing' +1 to it not working, when you see each other that awkward feeling is there the whole time, I just completely shut my ex out of my life and it was the best decision, if they message you or try to speak to you, either give them the cold shoulder or keep the conversation short. Because if those feelings end up coming back you will be at square one.