Before you go playing round with washer placement , have you driven the car, with the current kit installed? If so, does the car drive straight or does it drift/pull left or right? The answer to this question determines whether you need to stuff round with washers and placement.
If it drifts, place the washer, control arm side of the opposite radius rod in which the car is drifting. ie, if it's drifting left place the washer on the right hand radius rod...Thickness...About as thick as what the big factory style washer is to begin with..( Can't be bothered measuring at this stage)
Specs....Specs aren't the bee all end all with alignments, despite what the young idiots say in stores....Tyre wear patterns and how the car drives determines how you set the caster, camber and toe....Specs are a broad guide....eg, you can set the camber within the specs given by the factory, but the car can still drift one way or the other and can still wear an edge of the tyre....So pointless wanting them....