TheForgotten
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Ok, time for a rant and asking for outside opinions... bit of a story so sit back and relax...
My best mate was having a hard time, his family collapsed with his mum leaving for someone from her support group (went crazy basically) anyway, he was surviving with his dad, his sister moved out years ago. lots of stuff happened, then hisGF left him, but he found out she was still playing with her ex.
He went sorta postal, went to a doc who told him to take a holiday, so he came to visit me, as we hadn't seen eachother for 1 1/2 years. Anyway, he didn't want to go back, so after some stuffin round, he got a job here, and moved in with me and my family.
Now here's the issue. He's started hanging round with a completely different crew, and good on him IMO, but these guys are trouble. He's completely changed his personality, definitely not the guy I've known for nearly 10 years. Anyhow, he expects my gf to cook his dinner for him, and spits when it doesn't happen. he won't say a word about it when I'm around (I think it's because he knows I won't sugar coat things with him, never have never will).
I have no problem with his work hours, or stayin out all night, but he treats my family like crap, and I know this is gonna sound prissy, but he basically neglects me. I was the one on the phone at 11 (long after I go to bed) while he cried over his gf leaving him, I took him in, I repeatedly loan him money because he spends all his on crap (he makes more money than me, his car's paid out, and he doesn't have a small child to support), but he practically ignores me.
Anyway, the general idea is everyone wants him gone except me, he's been my closest friend for near on 10 years, so I can't bring myself to kick him out.
What the hell do I do?????
Sorry for the rant, but I don't have anyone to talk to face to face
My best mate was having a hard time, his family collapsed with his mum leaving for someone from her support group (went crazy basically) anyway, he was surviving with his dad, his sister moved out years ago. lots of stuff happened, then hisGF left him, but he found out she was still playing with her ex.
He went sorta postal, went to a doc who told him to take a holiday, so he came to visit me, as we hadn't seen eachother for 1 1/2 years. Anyway, he didn't want to go back, so after some stuffin round, he got a job here, and moved in with me and my family.
Now here's the issue. He's started hanging round with a completely different crew, and good on him IMO, but these guys are trouble. He's completely changed his personality, definitely not the guy I've known for nearly 10 years. Anyhow, he expects my gf to cook his dinner for him, and spits when it doesn't happen. he won't say a word about it when I'm around (I think it's because he knows I won't sugar coat things with him, never have never will).
I have no problem with his work hours, or stayin out all night, but he treats my family like crap, and I know this is gonna sound prissy, but he basically neglects me. I was the one on the phone at 11 (long after I go to bed) while he cried over his gf leaving him, I took him in, I repeatedly loan him money because he spends all his on crap (he makes more money than me, his car's paid out, and he doesn't have a small child to support), but he practically ignores me.
Anyway, the general idea is everyone wants him gone except me, he's been my closest friend for near on 10 years, so I can't bring myself to kick him out.
What the hell do I do?????
Sorry for the rant, but I don't have anyone to talk to face to face