Who else suffers from this...

[uniacidz]

I think you need a support person as well





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[Mk2]

I can understand why she would cut you off after posting that if she, too, is suicidal. Seriously, mate, go talk to your GP about this stuff and get his or her opinion on where to go from there. Knowing your friend is suicidal and then putting all of your troubles on top of hers is always going to be pretty heavy stuff for her.

 

['ssv']

If you really are suicidal and not just attention seeking, please speak to somebody about it.
It dosent matter who, whether it be a family member, a hotline or someone from work.
Your going down a path which many have. Unfortunately many dont seek help and cut there lifes short.
Suicide is selfish, please think about the ones around you.
Theres always a better outcome then suicide if you just talk to someone.

 

[kingswood country]

Wow, it's a bigger problem than I originally thought!

My Missus suffers depression, has done since our little one was born, it was a traumatic experience to say the least, she's also had anxiety problems most of her life...

While I don't completely understand it, (I don't suffer my self), i get most of the things she goes through, we talk about it and i can see a little of it in myself. I try my best to make her life a little easier, some days she won't get out of bed, other days she has no problem going out to the shops, but then her mind wonders, becomes paranoid of what people are thinking and needs to go home.

While I can't really help on the subject, I will say, talking to the right person certainly helps, but the right person isn't just a gp or specialist, you need to be comfortable with them too, and in my Missus and my experience, pills just don't seem to work after awhile, time for a different type.
But I will agree, being close to someone with the same problems does hold you back, my Missus wasn't speaking to one of her friends for a little while, she seemed so much better, and no only I was saying it, but other friends too, but after starting to speak to them again, she seems to have gone backwards.

While I prolly haven't contributed much, or at all to the subject, you've certainly helped me out and hopefully in turn, my Missus.

I hope it gets better for you man, I really do, just don't push her.

At the end of the day, it's all in your head, and I mean no disrespect in that, but I think it's the 1st thing to understand and take on board.


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[Hoon]

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[c2105026]

When someone ends a friendship like that it can be a bit of a shock. It has happened to me. I was suicidal, hell, I spent a bit of time (few hours) at a psych ward for an assessment (combination of work bullying and relationship issues). But I have since gotten over it, took 1-2 months to get over the critical phase of it. Take my advice - maintain some dignity. Don't drag mutual friends into it, you will turn them off too and you will be all alone. For now I would try to give her some space. If she wants you back in her life, she will pursue you. If not, if she is causing all this hassle for you, do you need her in your life?? That was the main thing that got me over my friendship issues. Are people who cause us pain worthy of our love? It depends on the benefits/costs of your relationship, which not knowing it I cannot comment on.

4 years on I have completed 3 marathons, another 3 City to Surfs, 7 half marathons, restored a VB Commodore and have displayed it at many large car shows, participated in service/fundraising work for 2 children's charity, run for local government and become politically involved at a local level, and have undergone retraining for a new career. I could have ended it all June Long weekend 2009.....but thankfully did not. Life's not perfect, but its alright.

It is always the darkest and coldest before the dawn.....

 

[Hoon]

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[commodore665]

My problems ,may have came on from making the ,move from South Africa to NZ and the death of my dad the following year , but when I think about it I was suffering from depression off and on for a long time but just didn't see the signs , I can now know what can be triggers , and can more often than not know how to deal with them , I would not contact her for a while , maybe a couple of weeks , I know you will want to but don't. Don't give up brother there is so much to live for and the world the world will be a better place with you in it . :beer chug:

 

[Mk2]

perfect, we are making progress with all this chat, yes.....If you are not happy with your current god then try a new god. May I suggest Ganesha if you want to have a new beginning and a good future (still no sex allowed with animals though).

This is actually a pretty serious topic. Just because you are anonymous and behind a computer, please remember that there is a real human being at the other end who will be reading your posts. Basically don't be a dick and post bullshit to try and trigger a reaction.

 

[RiCeY]

Hoon, like i said send her a txt saying you are sorry you upset her and you just want to be there for her.

She will contact you when the time is right.

And yxyx64 go troll elsewhere, nobody is amused.