i love the auto on feature, it means i dont have to do it and ive set the sensitivity to late so it comes on and off less, if i dont want them on i just flick them off, but i think if lights on bother you, you need anger management.
Its all about safety and convenience, how many times have you seen people driving in pitch black just relying on street lights because they havnt turned their lights on...
But i do see your point though, and in some ways i do agree, you have a car with things it does and what not, and YOU want to be able to tell them what to do not the car doing whatever it wants.
Just think if its not changing the way the car drives at all whats the point in worrying about it? At least then it means one less person will cut you off because they might actually notice you because the lights are on.