kW/kg -> kW/ton is just a maths thing. Times the 0.096 by 1000 (because there are 1000 kilos in a ton) and you'll get 96. This means there are 96 kilowatts per tonne being produced from your current setup. If you really want to increase performance (in this aspect) you can increase power, decrease weight or both. Power gains from the stock ecotec without putting a charger on there can be challenging.
Generally what I'd recommend (if budget is no limit mind) is a full rebuild with a different cam, bigger throttle body, blue printed and balanced bottom end, bigger injectors, ported and polished heads, remapping the ECU (MAF less tune to increase responsiveness, etc), bored out cylinders with bigger pistons (I think the limit is around 4.3 litres-ish), removing accessories such as aircon and the like for starters. If you want to produce more power after you get off your p's you should strengthen the bottom end (forged pistons/conrods, etc) and valvetrain, i.e. all the turbo/supercharger supporting mods that need to be done, then stick a massive turbo on there.
With regards to making the car lighter, not a lot can be done here without dramatically reducing the usability/legality of the car. Taking out things like the spare tyre, passenger seat, some of the internal door trim, replacing the glass with perspex, or even fabricating your own body panels out of some lighter materials (such as aluminium) are just some of the things you can do.
All in all, it is still gonna be a commodore ute and unless you also do the suspension upgrades, brake upgrades, driveline upgrades, etc you're not gonna get the best from it even if you do manage to get it to the 130kW/ton ratio. But I hope this helps with your decision making.
EDIT: Btw, this isn't a complete list of what you can do, just a few things that popped into my head when thinking about tuning.