Well what size exhaust was on the car before it blew up, when you were doing 190km/h@*how much*rpm?
Standard exhaust system is 2" on VR/VS V6, I don't know about the VY system, but I'm guessing the same, it's (basically) the same engine.
But even with a 2.25" system, you should still be gaining a 1/4 inch for an extra freer flow over stock, yet still retaining 'public street' performance and efficiency, and therefore economy.
Even with all those mods you have so far, they are not enough for you to need a big exhaust, it's still only a 6cyl, and the engine itself is still basically stock.
With a 2.5", I think you'l just end up losing economy, and smoothness on the street, and gain a lot of noise, without any real performance to back up all the noise.