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I have the same question and have also struggled to get a definate answer.
I'm fairly sure that the original pump didn't have an o-ring - if it did, it fell out and went into the sump, or the oil drain-tray when I removed the pump.
I got a new pump from Mace, and that didn't come with an o-ring.
I called Holden and gave them my VIN. The guy was really helpful and after referring to his parts manuals etc told me that there is no sign of an o-ring anywhere.
It just doesn't seem right, as there's a nice o-ring grove in the pump flange. My gut feel is that a good quality oil resistant high temp o-ring would be a better option than nothing at all, and I definitely wouldn't use sealant in that situation.
It'd be good to hear from someone who can confirm either way - previous posters have said they got o-rings from Holden but I wonder if they just picked something that fits and used that rather than matching by a part number.