Stress is not caused by.....
If you take a moment you would realize that stress is not caused by other people. It is caused by the way we perceive a situation. Heck, some people get highly stressed because someone passes gas on a crowded train. Sure it smells, but what can you going to do about it? Absolutely nothing. So, you might as well change your attitude and move on.
When someone else stresses you, it is because you let them pull your strings. And I am not talking about supressing your anger, cause that is twice as bad. If someone is standing on your toes, and you ask them to step off and they don't, push them off. That solves the immediacy of the problem. If they wish to take it further deal with it. Don't hold a grudge. That is food for stress. Next time they step on your toes, beat their ass with a metal bat, then crack some jokes and have a crown larger with them. Anger at someone shows they have power over you. Besides, apathy is the greatest disdain. It is called backbone with character. I don't hate you even after I have whipped your ass!
Recognize your weaknesses. We may not like Bin Laden, for instance. But there probably isnt a damn thing we can do about it. Don't sweat the small stuff. Just cause your neighbor don't always brush his teeth, doesn't mean you have to be stressed about it.
A lil stress is fine, it gives us motivation and purpose and it is where we learn our greatest lessons. Didnt you know, sex is one of the sweetest stresses
, and I am sure none of us would be willing to give it up
. But maybe we can learn to deal with our attitudes a little more. Getting mad at the hoon who is driving crazy on the highway doesnt change a thing. Maybe you can run his ass off the road
. Know your limitation, change what you can, and realize what you can't change (paraphrased from the Desiderata). If you can decide to be stressed, why not decide not to be. I'll be damned if I live my live simply as a reaction to others.