Full Spectrum
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Hey as you said your young still, so you have plenty of time to sort yourself out. I was same at your age, had this 6-4 130kg drunk walk into our party and pick at my brother. Pushing and shoving him leaning on the car with this huge bottle in one hand. And I've got issues with drunks because my stepfather was a violent alcoholic prick. So i pushed towards his bottle to get it out of my face and he let one fly into my chest. What would you do?. You try and block and fire one back. What made me feel bad was he went flying down the driveway and in this time my brothers friend flew under my arm pit tackled him lifted him and placed 6 blows into him. Still to this day i feel bad it went down like that.Cheers bud, heads all sweet now
You have a good point about having lots of anger though.. i go through phases where i'm calm and theres no issues at all, but then all of a sudden a guy will look at me the wrong way and i'll snap. Happened a few weeks a go, was getting off the train and a wog gave me the evils as he was getting on.. now he may not have, but my perception of it was he did. So he got back off the train and started acting all tough.. we were face to face and he tapped his head against mine. I cracked him straight to the nose and went to hit him again but he crouched down and tried to cover himself. He walked off telling me to come follow him but I walked in the other direction.. he followed and as soon as I got out of the train station and away from the cameras he shaped up and was like "you kno who your messing with brother" and kept trying to land kicks while boasting about his martial arts status. Kept my guard up and stayed calm while waiting for a chance to strike. He gave up and walked off. Either he knew he couldn't win or he was tired. Moneys on the later.
Point is I reckon people like myself and many others will continue to get in violent situations until we get rid of or find ways to deal with our anger issues deep down. Learn to deal with why your fighting, not how to fight.
See the one on the train isn't your fault. Sure you might have thought he was doing evils ( he might have been) but he pressed the situation by getting off and coming to you. He could have just let it go but didn't.
You clearly have some self control or you wouldn't stop in the middle of a fight and walk away. Use that and you will be so much more happier. And when people look at you now think this. It's not because your big, it's because they think your better looking now . Took me sometime to understand people weren't looking at me because i was the size of a double story house with extensions. The last person that gave me daggers i said Hi hows it going, and they **** lol.
See it's been so many years since i used public transport. And in june im heading into the city 4 days a week for 3 months and i will use it night and day "no car-parking" so I'm going to get a taste of it first hand. So much of these comments are helping me.