Time to revive this to see if anyone out there has had similar issue. Since I last posted I have replaced the harmonic balancer and all pulleys etc to no joy. Still have a shaking sensation in the steering that gets worse as you get up to 100kph and quite violent under braking. Have replaced most parts common with this, wheels, tyres, coil overs, pads, rotors and top hats (oh and an alignment) and nothing has made a difference. Haven't done the rear rotors because I don't see how these could be associated with the steering wheel shake under normal driving and then worse under braking.
Anyone who's had a similar issue I'd be keen to hear from you.
(1 thing that was odd during alignment was front left hand castor was +7 which means this wheel sits quite far back and cause the car to have a pull left tendency on cambered roads, however fine on flat new urban roads in my area) castor on the front is not adjustable apparently.