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so i came across this guys post, felt guttered for him. but it got me thinking have you ever been cheated on? how did you find out? what did you do about it?
and shoe on the other foot, have you ever cheated? what made you do it?
and shoe on the other foot, have you ever cheated? what made you do it?
I love my wife. With all my heart and soul. We have two beautiful children and she is pregnant with our third.
Recently my job has forced me to travel - two days on the road every other week. She has this guy friend - he's married. I just don't like him. Maybe it's because he's a good looking, fit guy. Who knows. I know they are just friends - but I can't help but get so jealous.
How can I get past this? I've told her how I feel - her response is that he is the only one of her friends without kids - so when they talk or hang out - they can have adult conversations. She likens it to me talking to my coworkers (she is a Stay At Home Mom). I get it. I love talking to friends and coworkers without kids.
I guess I just need people to tell me that I am being an idiot and I have nothing to be concerned with. It's normal for people to text all the time.
Guys and girls CAN be just friends. I truly believe that and have female friends.
Please, tell me that I'm being crazy and letting my own insecurities affect rational thinking!
I never wanted to use this throwaway again.
This morning at 0130 I looked at my wifes phone and found cold hard proof that she had been having an affair with her "friend".
I woke her and made her tell me everything. I mean everything. She doesn't know how it happened but she couldn't stop it.
I'm broken. We have a 3.5 YO, a 2YO, and she is 6 months pregnant.
I can't lose her. Even with all of this - I love her. I am furious and I feel betrayed. I feel dead inside. I took today off from work and am just sitting here staring at the wall.
She is committed to fixing it - I believe her. I heard her end things, and we agreed that I will be monitoring her phone.
She says she never lied to be about loving me. Just that something was missing and she messed up.
I am making her get an STD check today.
Sorry for the incoherent rambling.
I need a friend. I can't talk about this to anyone.