Yep your right there about the wiring colours. I think the earth should be in the centre of the stock plug??
Anyway generally i dont use the factory earth wire, i either make my own by routing a wire to a solid metal section, but with the VN-VS commodores i dont connect an earth wire, the unit earths through its chassis and the stereo screws to the metal frame so thats as good an earth as your going to get bar running a 12awg wire straight to your battery
So yep, basically just connect all the other wires and make sure not to turn the head-unit on without mounting it first, otherwise it will try and earth through the antenna cable (not good).