You can just fade to the front of the car in your headunit settings. So effectively, the fronts are louder than the rears at all times. This way you can get the fronts to their highest volume without the rears distorting. Little bit of trial and error until you find the sweet spot.
As for the gear dcBear suggested, I ran a Morel Tempo 6" component set in my VY. Shat all over several fusion, pioneer, clarion and alpine speakers that my mates went through in a comparable price range. Highly recommend. Soft, sweet highs that didn't fatigue, strong mid-bass for an untreated door, beautiful mids.
Don't run a 5 channel, you'll have limited expansion potential in the future. You're much better off buying a 4 channel amp, bridging 2 channels for the sub and run the front splits off of the other 2 channels. Leave the rears on the headunit. Then, in the future you can buy yourself a monoblock for the sub, bridge the 4 channel amp and give the front splits plenty of juice or you can power your rears with the 4 channel (meh).
Also, DO NOT look past the importance of a well treated door! You NEED sound deadening! The only reason why I didn't use it was because it was a temporary install. Get yourself some Dynamat or equivalent and sound deaden your doors (at least, preferably any other tinny panels too), like in this tutorial:
Sound Deadening Your Vehicle.
As well as the doors, you should deaden any panels that do not give a nice 'thud' noise when you tap them. Common parts in a commodore include the rear seat panel, parcel shelf etc.