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Not through router as that just confuses me even more.
you need to go into network settings on the computer, and 'bridge' together the cable internet and wifi connections.
the laptop will then be working as a wireless access point. google should be able to help.
i think what your looking for is mywi application in cydia, im not to sure how to use it
and for installous, thats for downloading paid apps for free