ohh jesus.
I'm lost for words.
Turning your lights on doesn't put more load on the engine, the alternator still uses the same amount of energy to produce the same amount of electricity.
The alternator doesn't generate more electricity to support the head lights, it produces a set amount of engergy. Thats why people who have big sounds systems have problems with the headlights diming when they have high levels of loud bass. Because the alternator can't keep up.
The air conditioner on the other hand DOES put extra load on the engine, because when its disengaged the electronic clutch free spins with next to no resistance. When you turn it on though the clutch engages and turns the compressor. Even the air con doesn't sap 50/100km worth of fuel, I don't think they've ever been worth that much fuel. Not even the big 3tonne compressors out of a HQ.
The whole Idea that head lights use fuel is rediculous.