I have a very similar issue with my VE SS L98 2008. Done almost 200,000km and I have hot idle oil pressure issues. When its Cold at idle and driving, it is fine. When Hot Idling, I had it fluctuating between 1 & 0 Bars of Oil pressure and after 30seconds of idling, one of my lifters starts tapping. If you rev it up, it goes away. I have no problems at all when driving - It goes up from the 1Bar to 4-5 Bars. Only on idle.
I changed oil from 5W30 to 5w40 and it was a little better where it stays on 1bar all the time at idle and sometimes started tapping but not as often as when on the 5W30. There have been a lot of people who have changed their oil pumps, to find the exact same problem happening again after a short time.
I beleive it is the Bearing tollerances have got a bit larger and causing pressure drops. (ie like a Garden Tap/Hose - If you start putting holes in the hose, it drops pressure along the hose length) So I put in a small amount of that Lucas Thick oil stuff (Not really a fan of this stuff) But though I would try it and dump it if it didnt make any difference or anything strange. It made a bit of difference again with hot oil pressure. Now I don't get any Tapping at idle.
Im tempted to go 5W50 or 10W50 on the next change.
My thing is that if you replace the oil pump, it may not rectify the actual problem. A bit like the Garden Tap/Hose - The Pressure at the Tap isnt the problem, its the holes in the hose. Replacing the tap will end with the same pressure result.
Thoughts on this.