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when you say "its complicated" you should say "actually, ok, i realise for a second there i was talking crap, but im gonna admit that i dont really knwo much about suspension other than what ive read on forums"
Once you start looking at suspension design its all inter-related, once you design for more comfort than grip while the compromises arent visible to the naked eye (well actually they arent visible at all lol) they are pre-built into the suspension and apart from changing pick up points and arm design you cannot overcome this.
so in your most sciency tone, tell me how coil overs affect this "pre built grip" you speak of