At the moment it looks like oil is getting into the coolant and hopefully it’s a one way thing as coolant in the oil can be very bad… for the engine or the auto transmission (if it’s trans fluid that’s leaking into the coolant).
It’s probably something you want to check and correct sooner rather than later, that is before some catastrophic failure occurs and the car is junked (from overheating and latte being vomited from the seals of your engine… don’t ask) …
I‘d go the following route
- Stop driving it
- Check your trans fluid for contamination by draining the fluid into pan and looking for that latte look… if it’s clean red fluid pour it back in (yuck) with extra points if you drop the pan, change the filter and flush your auto transmission (obviously ignore such if you have a manual)
- Check your engine oil by draining it into a container and looking for that latte look.. if it’s clean fresh looking oil pour it back in but extra points if you change the oil filter and pour in new fresh oil
- Check the LIM bolts as I’ve read that the bolts can loosen and/or the gaskets can fail allowing oil into coolant, coolant into oil… extra points if you remove the LIM and replace the gasket…
- Check the engine for any external oil leaks, if it’s pissing from everywhere, we’ll fix those leaks.
- Consider dropping the timing cover and looking at the condition of the front of the engine and the chains since you know they are sloppy. Extra points for replacing the chains, tensioners, gaskets, etc…
- Check the water pump with extra points if you remove and replace using a new gasket.
- If all seems ok with the above, id flush the system using a coolant flush and then pressure test the system (hot and cold) and check for leaks… bonus points for fixing them
Hopefully by doing the above, you’ll find the offending part and avoid a big failure in the future…