What rpm are you at in 2nd at 40kph?
Me, in a 4 speed, with 3.91 rear, with traction control off and sports mode on, I leave it in 2nd then mash the loud pedal and click into drive, hold on and try and keep it straight
You, with your 6 speed may just need to find out what gear has some rpm at 40kph, leave it in that until you hit it, then just throw it in drive
Don't worry too much about winning or losing in your first outing, focus more on what gear gives you your launch revs, and how hard you need to mash the pedal when you do launch
Keep off the limiter, let the auto shift for you, manual shifting is fraught with danger, you may short shift and lose revs, you may hit the limiter which is just as bad, you may get it right
Try your first run or 2 with traction control on and sports mode off to see if it wants to activate, a little wheel slip is good, alot of slip will either just bag up the rear or possibly point you at the wall, both don’t help you go fast
Then, after a run or 2, go into sports more, then try turning traction control off
If you bag it up fairly easily lower your rear tyre pressure a little bit and see if that help, be aware that lowering your tyre pressure will effect handling in the top end
Be aware that when it shifts hard it may get "lose"
It is a game of test and adjust
Just focus on having some fun
Everyone starts slow
Keep your car serviced
Check for leaks
And as you have already probably witnessed, 80% of people (cheaters) will jump the start