Swapped the park lamp relay for the heated rear window relay and no go but thats not a very good indication since the rear window defogger doesn't work anyway, im gonna replace those relays and see if it makes a difference. That has to be it cause the lights work fine when i put the indicator on or hit the brakes, i've tried replacing the headlight switch, no go, fuses are fine, no sign of wire damage. So ill see how i go.