I would love to know the mind set behind people being like this.
Entitled and Lazy mostly.
Some of it is posted in the middle of a crisis when they can’t think rationally is my less shitty view. But at least give some closure later…….
But most of what I see in fb groups also echos this. Useless post, mix of helpful replies and shitposting with equal responses from OP blasting people for not understanding, seeking clarification, or those with an option that is so far out of range for the OP (how are we supposed to know your skill set, budget, available resources etc, your post didn’t do that)
The ‘girls/ladies/women’ type groups seem to be absolutely smashed with this and 90% is anon posted.
Related - these female only groups just pile on in the comments ‘leave, run, red flag, you are being abused’ etc from a few sentences of ramble from anon OP. I have noticed a few people have joined me in pointing out that pitchforks and fast sneakers are not required response to every post
‘My partner wouldn’t help me bring the groceries in and he never does’ plus I had to feed the dog and put the bin out. He was watching TV the whole time. = girl run. That’s such a red flag. OMG this is abuse. You shouldn’t be doing all of the domestic labour. Kick him out.
Did you ask for help? - no, but I ranted/gave silent treatment.
people are allowed to have down time. If it’s bothering you/you need help, communicate it.
Not in the girls group clearly. All partners (mostly blokes) need to be mind readers and punished if failing at anything they didn’t even know they were failing at.
Gee this turned into a rant.
But just so you know the whole male species are awful humans
