What the hell do I do???

[1vngal]

TheForgotten, You have to put your g/f and child first. I know this guy is your best mate, and you have been through so much together, but honestly, what sort of a friend does what he is doing? It's really not fair on you, your g/f and your child.

You need to say to him, that you have a family to think of, and that you don't have a problem helping out at this rough time, but he really has to rethink the way he is behaving for him to stay there with you.

I understand where you're coming from, I really do. I know what it's like to bend over backwards to help out these people that are 'your best mates', and get nothing but a kick in the arse in return. It makes things so hard, and to be honest, it hurts. A lot.

I dunno, it is a hard situation to be in, but you really have to do something. Like I said before, it's not fair on any of you.

 

[yZoH]

I've been through quite a lot in my life, I know i'm only 17 but most most people that do find out almost collapse knowing what i've been through/put up with.

That is no reason for him to change, Honestly...

If they all want him gone & you don't... Maybe suggest him to get back on his feet an move out an start fresh again. Instead of cramping your family's style.

Cheers
MaT

 

[TheForgotten]

Well I talked to him, long story short, he's giving up booze and greens.
He knows he's treating us badly, and I told him to appologize to my gf. we'll see what happens. I didn't kick him out, which I'll probly get in trouble for...

 

[Shortstuff]

Sounds like a good start at least. Good luck!