Thought I would give an update. A mix of auto trans fluid and acetone scrubbed in with a tooth brush and left overnight. The next day turned it tighter a small bit with an adjustable spanner and then looser and it worked. The fitting came out easy as.
New intake manifold gasket from supercheap $18, new fitting $45 +gst from nissan and generic coolant hose to replace damaged one $25.
Not bad i thought just need to get round to re assembling it all now