No worries, I'll try to give help where I can. Anyway, yeah that's the one under the fuse box with the 2 big connectors with the levers to lock them in. As for the inlet manifold runner, it's on the back apparently (no I haven't seen mine that I know of either). The manual for the Pontiac G8 (pretty much identical), says the following:
Intake Manifold Runner Control Solenoid Replacement
Removal Procedure
Note: DO NOT separate the upper intake manifold from the lower intake manifold.
1. Remove the upper intake manifold with the lower intake manifold. Refer to Lower Intake
Manifold Replacement.
2. Remove the intake manifold runner control solenoid to intake manifold retaining bolts (2)
from the intake manifold runner control solenoid (1).
3. Remove the intake manifold runner control solenoid (1) from the manifold.
Installation Procedure
1. Install the intake manifold runner control solenoid (1) to the manifold.
Caution: Refer to Fastener Caution in the Preface section.
2. Install the intake manifold runner control solenoid to manifold retaining bolts (2) to intake
manifold runner control solenoid and tighten to 10 N·m (89 lb in).
3. Install the upper intake manifold. Refer to Lower Intake Manifold Replacement.