there is a lot of change happening in the world. Some of the change is around language. I bet I need a flame suit but here goes -
'Surprisingly enough the workplace is starting to change, where if a female does some inappropriate things towards a male, the male is taking the female role of whinging about it.'
the above statement is a problem, if you write the statement again without the genders its still a reflection on workplace changes but without reducing peoples behaviour to 'cry like a girl' or 'be more manly'
we have men who are unable to express how they feel or communicate their needs without being labelled 'unmanly' etc, and IMO this reflects heavily in the state of mens mental health overall. We need to keep pushing for change here, it aint weak to speak campaigns etc. I have young adult children, and I am joyed to see that the boys talk more than I ever recall my own male friends doing. There is still far too many young men who do not speak up however as they have had so many years of being told 'dont be a woman/sook' etc.
men and women who may feel they cannot take up a hobby or are dissuaded from pursuing a career because its 'a females job, or a mans hobby' etc
all of this gatekeeping is preventing some really influential people from making their mark on the world. It also forces some rules around hiring policies to try & correct the balance, and that causes no end of outrage about ability vs gender.
change is hard, it feels uncomfortable. sometimes its not about giving everyone the same step and expecting the same outcome, but to provide each person the right sized step, so that everyone can get the same outcome.
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