I’ve previously posted YouTube vids on the subject in your BT thread. These vids clearly show the way the donut is installed is critical.
Basically it’s the thicker part of the donut that is meant to carry the load (between shaft and diff flange) when driving forward. I‘d assume the 2 sets of 3 bolts pointing in opposite directions simply aids balance.
PS: seen you’ve referenced one of the vids already and in that video he installs the bolts incorrectly according to the instructions he’s received with the donuts
I’d assume the bolt head would be against the rubber side of the donut with the nuts being against the steel flange side. Such means 3 bolts will face one way while the other three face the other way and that lines up with the instructions he’s received