Sounds like it needs to be tuned properly. Go to the PCMhack website and see what is involved. Get yourself a copy of one of the enhanced tunes that can run larger MAF's that don't max out and tune it.
Tuned properly you shouldn't need to add extra injectors but you will need some decent 60 lbs injectors to get the flow you need. Most of the guys use the Seimens DEKA injectors.
Listen to the man above, he knows a thing or 2 about these PCM's
Re the timing. Ecotecs seem to have a fairly efficient combustion chamber and hence do not require a lot of timing to make good power. The standard ecotec also has some fairly weak pistons in the n/a engine, 10psi and a good tune they will last. More then that and you're looking at a limited life span. I suspect that the rings have something to do with this as I have seen a couple where the parts of the piston crown are left behind suggesting the rings may be butting together.
Considering the age and mileage of this car/engine it's almost certain that the engine mounts are totally stuffed which could be causing some of your issues. these are the best mounts available if you don't want the engine to move
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The video linked above (jetV6) is into the 9's and he's still using the standard IRS suspension....