VicRoads Vehicle Standards Information #25, Motor Vehicle Body Repairs states:
"The windscreen and rear window form part of the vehicle structure. Incorrectly fitted windscreens or rear windows will adversely affect the roof strength and its performance, particularly in a roll over. Therefore it is important that the correct adhesive and application procedures are used when fitting a windscreen or rear window."
Make of that what you will but as i don't have enough knowledge about the long term affects that silicon or lanoline can have on rubber or the ployurethane bond, i wouldn't consider such a fix a great solution.
As has been said, the issue impacting some commodores seems to be related to small movement in the /bodywindscreen causing the top seal to make noise. Either the body/screen flexes more than it should (design issue), or there is something wrong with the factory windscreen install (manufacture issue), or there is something wrong with the top seal itself (component issue). But as none of us here had a hand in the vehicle design, we don't know what the underlying cause is.
In any case, why would you take the risk of not using a manufacturer approved solution (which in this case seems to be the windscreen being replaced along with a new top seal)?
Having said that, my biggest concern would be that the dealer service department may not be able to correctly install a new windscreen in any case, as that is not their day job (so to speak). Even a windscreen installer that comes out to you couldn't possibly do a good job as placing a screen onto the poly bond is not really a one man job (but there is only ever one man that comes to you to do it).
Sadly
Windscreen Replacement - Australian College of Road Safety (pfd) seem to cast doubt (in their abstract) on how well windscreens are replaced out in the real works (i've yet to read the whole doc).
So it seems there is no real good solution here unless Holden comes out and formally states that periodically applying lanolin (for example) would resolve the issue and not cause degradation of the runner or windscreen bond in the long term (and take the legal hit should such sattements be wrong and a roof caves in a rollover). But i doubt Holden would make such a formal statement.
I'd still want Holden to correctly resolve the issue rather than hoping my home grown periodic oiling would not cause issues down the track...